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If you don’t want to marry this guy why are you still together? You should be 110% sure you want to get married before you get married. If your having any doubts don’t go through with it, you will regret it. Getting a divorce is a pain in the ass I’ll tell you, make plans to leave him since this relationship isn’t going anywhere. There are tons of amazing people out there for you.
I probably will get downvoted into the ground for it but there is the possibility that he doesn’t understand. But that really could depend on how you have communicated, you can’t know until you have been super honest and spelled it out if he is purposely violating your boundaries or not. Communication is a two way street, he should be listening better but also you say you aren’t good with boundaries, that can make a lot of situations murky. People are NOT good with nuance. He knows that it turns you on in the bedroom, the nuance is that doesn’t mean you are okay with it everywhere, I find it takes people way more time to accept or hear people out when it’s something they already have an idea about, like they struggle to see both can be true at the same time, one doesn’t invalidate the other. But without you holding that clear boundary it could be confusing like oh I guess it wasn’t that big of a deal after all. Now I’m not saying this is all on you, for all I know I’m totally off base, but I’m just trying to point out it’s still possible that this could be problems with miscommunication. Not holding boundaries does cause problems with communication. Not holding those boundaries can be like making your words less meaningful and muddying things, boundaries are a kind of communication too because those boundaries communicate something to the other person.
You're already being controlling. You need isn’t his beef. Your issue is You hold grudges and need to learn to let things go. It's not like she motorboat him.
I don't think you would. It's not healthy to rely on your children like this, or really anyone for that matter. She can't be his only friend, his only support, especially since his 'support' comes with strings attached:
if I dont want to talk to him or hang out with him for say more than a day he gets very sad and offended
he never wants me to on-line out of the state or go into a profession that he doesnt approve of. He gets very upset and goes into rages at times if I mention not wanting to get married/have kids by the time Im 30 and at very little things too
I feel like I am always having to be the peacekeeper, calming him down and keeping him happy
This isn't healthy. This isn't caring. It sounds like he has no interest in truly caring or spending time with her. Why are you bending over backwards to make OP the bad guy?
If you don’t want to marry this guy why are you still together? You should be 110% sure you want to get married before you get married. If your having any doubts don’t go through with it, you will regret it. Getting a divorce is a pain in the ass I’ll tell you, make plans to leave him since this relationship isn’t going anywhere. There are tons of amazing people out there for you.
I probably will get downvoted into the ground for it but there is the possibility that he doesn’t understand. But that really could depend on how you have communicated, you can’t know until you have been super honest and spelled it out if he is purposely violating your boundaries or not. Communication is a two way street, he should be listening better but also you say you aren’t good with boundaries, that can make a lot of situations murky. People are NOT good with nuance. He knows that it turns you on in the bedroom, the nuance is that doesn’t mean you are okay with it everywhere, I find it takes people way more time to accept or hear people out when it’s something they already have an idea about, like they struggle to see both can be true at the same time, one doesn’t invalidate the other. But without you holding that clear boundary it could be confusing like oh I guess it wasn’t that big of a deal after all. Now I’m not saying this is all on you, for all I know I’m totally off base, but I’m just trying to point out it’s still possible that this could be problems with miscommunication. Not holding boundaries does cause problems with communication. Not holding those boundaries can be like making your words less meaningful and muddying things, boundaries are a kind of communication too because those boundaries communicate something to the other person.
You're already being controlling. You need isn’t his beef. Your issue is You hold grudges and need to learn to let things go. It's not like she motorboat him.
If he really wanted to change, he would quit all porn. Google how porn can cause erectile dysfunction.
What do you mean a one off? In the post it says he's strangled her several times.
Is everyone else ignoring the fact that they started dating when she was 17 and he was 21?
I don't think you would. It's not healthy to rely on your children like this, or really anyone for that matter. She can't be his only friend, his only support, especially since his 'support' comes with strings attached:
if I dont want to talk to him or hang out with him for say more than a day he gets very sad and offended
he never wants me to on-line out of the state or go into a profession that he doesnt approve of. He gets very upset and goes into rages at times if I mention not wanting to get married/have kids by the time Im 30 and at very little things too
I feel like I am always having to be the peacekeeper, calming him down and keeping him happy
This isn't healthy. This isn't caring. It sounds like he has no interest in truly caring or spending time with her. Why are you bending over backwards to make OP the bad guy?