Press right there to start video
Room for online video chats Adele_Nick
Adele_Nicklive sex stripping with Live HD
20K Share
Press right there to start video or
Room for live sex video chat Adele_Nick
Model from:
Languages: en,de,es,fr
Birth Date: 1997-09-14
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorGreen
Subculture: subcultureStudent
“I’m not going to tell him that I know, but I will tell him that it’s never going to happen.” First off, why is she calling that person a friend if they aren’t respecting her relationship in the first place! Now what if she put herself in your shoes, would would she feel about this situation?
Yes! It’s the worst cycle to be caught in. I would genuinely hate sex because it would be a constant reminder that the other person is only doing it to keep me happy instead of mutually pleasurable experience. I don’t think people realize that damage that could do to your self esteem and libido.
It depends how the kids are raised…..if stepkid doesn’t treat her as anything other than dad’s wife and she does no parenting of said child then why would she think of the child like that? Stepkid also has a mother and grandparents that may leave her money and the other kids get none of it. Was the grandfather close with stepkid? How was their relationship?
Would it be an idea to set an end date? I’ve seen some people do that and although it seems sad it seems like a nice way to spend the last bit of time together before I’m moving apart
My husband agreed with this
This is largely dependent on where you on-line. A large city or a rural city. You’re gonna get many different answers.
Also depends on how your partner grew up, or how they intend to live! as an adult. Depends on if your partner is okay with being a lifetime renter or wants to own property.
Many factors here.
For me— I live in Los Angeles. It’s very expensive to live here. I also attended college and some graduate school. I’m the only one in my family who only has one degree. I grew up going to private school and my parents owned our home. I’m not from LA though, if that matters.
I am looking for a partner who makes six figures at least. My peers make that, I’m 29, and I’d like to find someone who matches my lifestyle. But if I lived in a less expensive city, I’m sure I’d be able to on-line comfortably with a partner making like 60-70K. I just don’t plan on moving.
it doesn’t matter if he initiated if you made out with him for a couple of minutes
Bruhh please read what I just posted and understand please. Thanks
A huge flaw that doesn't seem to be getting better. You tried communicating, you tried therapy, I'm not sure what else you can do here but it sounds like the resentment phase has already started.
I apologize for being so harsh. Uncalled for.
He can also come around once out of the environment & somewhere he feels safe. It'll take work but also time, but removing him from that prison that triggers his fear, anxiety, and trauma will be a major step towards his healing.
Sounds like he wants to have sex with another person. He wants to control you and controlling people are the worst partners because they are so insecure they blame all their problems on the other person.
When you know you're trying and all you get is criticism – perhaps from her not really forgiving you for previous issues – and resentment builds and your reaction to them is anger and resentment then it's probably time to remove yourself from the situation for a few days and evaluate if it can even work. You sound like you are there – listen to your counselor.
Just told my mother and my sister about this after sharing with Reddit. They agree that it isn’t just his trauma to keep. Thank you for this.
No one who is “head over heels” in love with someone would “leave all night for other guys”. Even if she only kissed someone else, she ditched her sisters and friends at her sisters bachelorette to hang around other random men.
I don’t like to go out and get overly drunk without my bf, but in a case of a girls event like this my last concern would be entertaining other guys in any manner. Especially during those first couple years when your really falling in love with them and “head over heels” that’s what will be on your mind, no matter how drunk you are.
I remember girls nights out when I’d probably talk about my bf way too much, text him a lot and constantly be thinking about when I could sneak outside and quickly call and talk to him or maybe to the bathroom to send him a cute selfie.
Even single I actually hate being approached by men when out drinking lol. Drinking isn’t an excuse to immediately want to become physical and hang off every strange guy you see, I just don’t get that sentiment.
I’m really proud of you for the way you handled it from the beginning of trusting her not going into because you can’t stop somebody from doing something they want to do. And I’m even prouder of your response afterward though I know it’s heartbreaking for you. Just move on with your life I promise you you will find somebody else that loves you and doesn’t do that but you’re a gym and a keeper. Good luck to you.
“Neither of us have anyone we could ask to be roommates”
We both worked at the same place. I worked there for about 6 months before leaving for a year then came back. We didn't really talk when I first started. I came back and about another 6 months we were actually talking this time. He would always sit at the bar when I was working. He lived super close to me so we both started to hang out and actually talk a lot. So we knew each other for awhile but actually started talking for 9 months before doing anything
Dude you should edit your post. This info is crucial. So basically she tried to suck his dick and then she regretted or being rejected or scared that you might hear about it and came clean to you. I don’t believe there’s coming back from that. Don’t try to carry the weight of her mistakes. It is her place to correct this and your place to decide whether you are ok to forgive or not.
You keep your old phone number in case someone who doesn’t have your new number tries to contact you. You will see from missed calls or text messages when someone has tried to get in touch. He will give them his new number each time and eventually will disconnect the old number.
You keep your old phone number in case someone who doesn’t have your new number tries to contact you. You will see from missed calls or text messages when someone has tried to get in touch. He will give them his new number each time and eventually will disconnect the old number.
You keep your old phone number in case someone who doesn’t have your new number tries to contact you. You will see from missed calls or text messages when someone has tried to get in touch. He will give them his new number each time and eventually will disconnect the old number.
Do your own thing. See if she bothers to reach out to you. You two aren't exclusive so she's just playing the field it sounds like. If she thinks you're worth hanging out with, she'll text. I wouldn't get too worked up over it right now. Just keep living your life.
If she won't leave no matter what you say I don't think you have a choice besides the police, if there's no dorm security or anything like that
Well, I'm not going to make a rash decision. And we on-line together at least until we move out of our uni house in May. I'm not sure what else to do in the meantime apart from think deeply about all of this so that I'm sure what I want to do come May.
Ah, there was more to her, we genuinely had some really fun times together.
I’m not trying to be purposely naive, just curious, but what parts are the most toxic and volatile?
I would have found that super annoying. It's not nude to respect someones boundaries and it's creepy as fuck repeatedly saying you will have a “hard time” doing so. I don't see how him constantly saying those super thirsty things would be a misunderstanding.
What is he doing that he wants your fiance to overlook? Without saying what the issues are, we can't say if he's being an ass or he's right.
Thank you. I didn't know quite what I'd get from posting this, but was hoping for something helpful like your post.
Yup.
I was mad at her too and it was 2 am I passed out on the couch. I had been drinking since 7 pm. I didn’t just decide to go to bed my body just shut down.
I will try, but we are in a one bedroom apartment, and there's really not much space. Thank you for the advice.
Oh god. I still feel like I'm in the wrong tbh. And if he wanted to break up with me, then there have been lots of chances already. I don't really know what to feel anymore.
You say his ex is someone like Ashley? Well, he's had “Ashley” already and it didn't work. Why would he want to go back to something similar?
I do believe their behaviour is crossing boundaries though and I don't understand why you're in a serious relationship with him if you cannot voice your concerns? Just speak up!
Girl, you should MOVE ON. You're so caught up on this asset that isn't yours, was never yours, and you sound so bitter and resentful. I can't imagine this relationship will work out since you have zero respect for your partners decisions and are making something that happened 6 years ago all about you. Also, if you want out of your “shitty kitchen”, you should work nude and find a way to do better for yourself. God, you're exhausting
You need to kick him out. Dead weight will drag you down and away from countless opportunities. Don’t feel obligated to stick with a loser just because you’ve been sticking with a loser for five years.
Kind of just sounds like he’s young and immature and you’re going through growing pains. You’re too mature for a lot of boys in your age group for now. I would probably break up with him and be more selective or just take a break from dating all together.
Either way, your boyfriend isn’t funny and that shit is hurtful and dumb. Don’t date dumb boys
you'd …. rather die? Like thats great that you're loyal, but that is dumb as fuck.
Someone breaks into your house and rapes your wife, and you're like, “nah, I don't want to deal with my emotions, just take me out brah”
you need therapy.
It's definitely the 2nd one. He was more focused on the exclusivity than the fact that if he did that, no harm will come to his wife.
Just break up. I think he feel entitled to your effort without giving back on the same level.
My gosh luv, he calls you ugly, rejects your advances, is an overall asshole, and you stay with him? He has somehow convinced you that you don’t deserve better but clearly you do. Why do you like this jerk?
Dude. Send a fucking two word text when you wake up. That's all it would take to solve this issue and make your partners very reasonable ask happen.
For the third time in this thread, is this really the hill you wanna die on?
Thank you so much for your response. What do you think I should do now? Confess to him that I've been looking into his files? He could see in his dropbox that I checked those files out.. I want to tell him but I'm scared he won't trust me no more, which I would get.. I feel like shit rn
You’re the most morally reprehensible piece of shit ever. I can’t believe you turned your back on your wife she needed you most. What you did is unforgivable.
if you’re so set that you’ll not tell her how you feel, then you’ll never know.
are you risking? you betcha.
but here’s the way the cookie crumbles, sis.
if you tell her and she’s into you too, congrats, you’ve hit a jackpot.
if you tell her and she’s not into you, that’s ok. you’ve still got your friend. you will have to leave those fun crush thoughts aside, but you’ll still have your friend.
if you tell her and she gets freaked out, or starts saying queerphobic stuff, she wasn’t your friend anyways.
so either you’ll have a romantic partner, a friend, or you’ll learn she is not your friend.
so, um, what’s the real risk?
Are you freaking serious? Has to be a troll
Wait so you don’t even trust him to hang out with other women in a mixed gender group in a public place like a bowling alley? What do you think is even gonna happen here? They’re gonna try and have illicit sex behind the shoe rental counter or something?
Are you arguing or are you fighting? How do these scenarios play out?
Plus I would not really consider your coping mechanism resolving, because you literally just avoid each other until both have cooled off and then you apologize. Don't get me wrong, this is a lot healthier than how most other couples do it, but it doesn't “resolve” anything really. Especially when you simply apologize afterwards and go to sleep only and then repeat the cycle the next time.
Apologies lose their worth after a time, if you always apologise for the same things.
Are you living together?
Nothing you can do to fix her being stressed from work either. Life is difficult sometimes, you can't let that affect your relationship too much though, it is no excuse. Nothing for you to bring up either or pointing it out.
To be completely honest, you guys just need to get your shit together and stop fighting so much or you need to consider if you might need to go seperate ways.
Fighting and arguing is like cancer to a relationship. It kills it slowly and you either get rid of it or it will fester and come back.
Well, then there wasn’t really a reason to ask for feedback.
You’re happy, based on your writing there’s nothing to be, for you or for him, to be unhappy with.
So if that’s the question, then there’s no need to be here.
You’re asking, because you’re just now actually taking a critical view of this person, which you should always do.
No 30yo should be looking at barely legal adults as partners. And based on the other conversations, you know he’s even more deceitful than that.
And worst of all all of those people are still in his life, and if you were to break up, he could just go back to doing what he was before.
His past actions are reflection of who he is, and it’s up to you to believe that or not. It seems like you don’t want to, and that’s OK. But if you’re going to continue with him, at least do the work of protecting your future self with a prenup.
No, you just need to break up with him and leave. It's pointless at this rate to bring up everything you've found because the second you tell him you looked through his phone you lose credibility. Just break up and leave him
Oof. This is a nude sell. You’ve been dating for two years, and he still won’t introduce you to his family? I promise, this is going nowhere.
I dated a guy who wouldn’t introduce me to his mom 2 years in bc he knew she wouldn’t approve of my race. Never mind that he spent countless hours at my parents’ house & even joined us on vacation. We broke up for other reasons, but looking back, I don’t know WHAT I was thinking.
You've been together 10 years but the majority of these years, you were kids. Can you really count that? I don't think so. On the flip side, I'm assuming you're living together so he's got that benefit without having to make a permanent commitment. I'm sure he believes you'll never leave him so there's no rush or pressure to make it legal. I also don't believe in ultimatums. Is that really how you want to start off a marriage? Either accept that he's probably not going to propose, for a long time or ever, or end the relationship.
You want him to replicate the dynamics of his old relationship which he is telling you was toxic. You are not compatible.
This is so awkward I am literally crying and silently hysterically laughing while trying not to wake up my partner just at the thought of it.
Yes, and we have been arguing a lot recently and almost breakup 2 times