I understand. I think it’s because the fights are always petty and the blow ups are big. He is a great husband that contributes financially, emotionally, and if I need anything he is right there. He love his son and will do anything for both of us. He stayed in the hospital by my side all 9 days after giving birth. I just think he suffered from his childhood trauma and it causes him to react like this. I would like to be able to self check and see if it’s me that is wrong and causes these huge blow ups.
Well my advice is you should have enjoyed your vacations without expectations. Also he is right to a degree. The system is stacked against men. Yet they are the ones demonized for everything. I guess if marriage is important to you move on to someone else.
This is God showing a sign of what you future is going to be once you sign the contract. You’re about to sign your sanity away so think twice of thrice…
This is not a nice guy! He treats you like crap! For fuck's sake.
I understand. I think it’s because the fights are always petty and the blow ups are big. He is a great husband that contributes financially, emotionally, and if I need anything he is right there. He love his son and will do anything for both of us. He stayed in the hospital by my side all 9 days after giving birth. I just think he suffered from his childhood trauma and it causes him to react like this. I would like to be able to self check and see if it’s me that is wrong and causes these huge blow ups.
Well my advice is you should have enjoyed your vacations without expectations. Also he is right to a degree. The system is stacked against men. Yet they are the ones demonized for everything. I guess if marriage is important to you move on to someone else.
I would end the relationship.
This is God showing a sign of what you future is going to be once you sign the contract. You’re about to sign your sanity away so think twice of thrice…