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frankly it scares me a little
Why? The level of awareness this person has is high and that's a good thing. The issue with these Cluster B disorders is that we tend to be abusive with very little understanding of our actions. We know we take the action and seemingly don't care but we don't understand what drives the negative behavior (it's trauma). Your bf is trying to practice honesty and good communication, I think.
I know I truly am in love with him
That doesn't sound like a bad thing
he tells me frequently that I am the only person he’s ever loved (including his family)
This is just over sharing. A component of Cluster B disorders is difficulty in social situations, including relationships. I think this is an example of that. He doesn't fully understand that you might be uncomfortable with that. Plus, because of our empathy issues, we have to practice cognitive empathy. This just means we have to do extra steps in our heads to share in emotional things.
what if he wakes up one day and is a completely different person?
I don't think this happens unless we're talking about dementia. If anything your bf might seem like a different person if they are triggered. One of the reasons these personality disorders are considered so bad is that we can't change, at least not completely, and that we often remain unaware and unable to face our own negative behavior.
What if he’s mimicking my behavior
There may be some behavior mimicking but I go back to his awareness. The awareness is somewhere between 50-90% of the battle. Once you're aware you can actually make progress on modifying the negative.
what he feels isn’t true love?
If you feel loved, then he loves you. What is true love anyways? I don't believe it exists. If your bf is showing you that which you call love, does it matter? To use an analogy, it's similar to a Christian worrying that someone might be out there “unsaved and destined for hell” when you can't truly know if anyone is “saved” because it's something that occurs within someone. All you can base it on is the words and actions. If his words and actions say love, then it is love.
Please I need some insight on this disease.
I hope this helps!