This guy loves you. What he’s saying is that he wants you and was hoping that maybe you really didn’t want to move. He isn’t saying he never would move.
But you need to keep in mind – this guy wants you. You are his top priority. If you weren’t he would have brought this up long ago and left.
That said, there is probably a compromise. Like moving and see how it goes. Give it 3 years and then reassess. Something like that. You two have plenty of time to go online somewhere else and experience different things.
Find something in the country that he can relate to. That will help.
But don’t forget that he has shown that it’s you he wants. He will end up moving because it’s what you want and he has no desire to lose you.
He will like it more than he knows. As someone near 50 – I wish I had the balls to do stuff like this when I was young
Sometimes the next natural step is breaking up, it’s not always marriage
This guy loves you. What he’s saying is that he wants you and was hoping that maybe you really didn’t want to move. He isn’t saying he never would move.
But you need to keep in mind – this guy wants you. You are his top priority. If you weren’t he would have brought this up long ago and left.
That said, there is probably a compromise. Like moving and see how it goes. Give it 3 years and then reassess. Something like that. You two have plenty of time to go online somewhere else and experience different things.
Find something in the country that he can relate to. That will help.
But don’t forget that he has shown that it’s you he wants. He will end up moving because it’s what you want and he has no desire to lose you.
He will like it more than he knows. As someone near 50 – I wish I had the balls to do stuff like this when I was young