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I went no contact with my mother. My sister tried to “reconcile” us by pressuring me. I went no contact with my sister. Neither of them have seen my children since they were babies. My mother died last month and it didn't change how I felt about my decision in the slightest.
Do not get involved if you want to be part of her life. Do not tell her you can see where he's coming from. His side is twisted and unfathomable. He disowned his child because she didn't want the career he had?! He disowned his child because she fell in love with a soldier from an allied country?! What do you find so understandable? Just the fact that he wants to see the baby? Tough. That was always the outcome of his actions. He did this. She owes him nothing but contempt.
Haha, thanks again for this tidbit. I'm trying to do my best and give it some time and try to honor my own boundaries too because I have given in too many times.
I said if the roles were reversed it would be different and she said if I found a team of women that didn't mind getting changed with me in there, she wouldn't care.
It’s not the pillow. He is super angry about something, but it’s not the pillow. That he said over and over that he paid for could be a clue, but you should talk to him. Ask him why he got so upset.
Or, you know, there’s always Reddit’s go to solution: therapy and/or break up.
I work in a primary school and after ten years, have NEVER had lice from the kids and I am a super tactile teacher. They can't jump, it takes head to head contact.
You only need to keep your hair up or keep it out of the way of the kids to avoid it. She's either fed up and this is linked to her shame/stress/embarrassment, or she genuinely doesn't care.
If she doesn't care, that's an issue because it's directly affecting you and that shows a lack of respect. If she's overwhelmed, you might need a firm talk with her and to set some boundaries with offers to help again.
Don't let this kill the romance without being abundantly clear with her that it isn't normal and won't be tolerated. Ask her to sleep on the sofa until they're gone if needs be.
Totally understand but it feels like a lack of respect. Like I respect her too much to do that. It feels like she it accounting for the other dudes feelings over mine. But hey that just me.
Yes, you're a fool to talk to him. Block him and move on. What's going through his head is “hey, she probably still has feelings for me, she'll be an easy rebound.”
Sometimes Reddit feels like a playground of squabbling children who have no idea what tipped the other person off and then then they go on this long rant about ‘my gf/bf is insecure’.
NO THATS NOT THE CASE. Read the post again.
She said something to OP that’s bothering her, OP told her to be quiet, and thats when she lost her and went ham. The crying and screaming at home is because she was dismissed by OP when she said that something bothered her, not because some girl put her head on his shoulder which may be an annoying thing but doesn’t warrant an explosion.
Some of you out here need some lesson in reading between the lines and realizing that there is another side to the story
Wow, although my boyfriend and I haven’t really fought yet, I know I’m guilty of this sort of thing as many other people are. Thank you for typing this our so explicitly! This will serve as a really great guide for me moving forward if he approaches me with frustrations!
I think this is unfair – I visit and I spend insane amounts of time with her children. I love her children, they are the most wonderful kids I’ve ever met and they are a testament to her. I would do absolutely anything for her or them. But how can I maintain an adult relationship with my best friend if we spend NO adult time together?
You need an attorney now. Get ready before she has time to act. Based on the post, husband has a very strong case. Any judge is going to look askance at at woman who abandoned her child. A restraining order might be appropriate to eliminate the possibility of her showing up at home or school. Be strong. Be relentless. Best wishes.
Not gonna lie, from the way the title of this post was written I was expecting the story to be that your ex girlfriend found porn featuring your new gf live and told you about it.
You need to block this guy again and leave him blocked. He talked shit about you and your friends, he never deserved to be unblocked in the first place. You deserve better than him.
That’s really tough to have to deal with. It’s also not your fault. Give her an opportunity to clarify what she meant but if she really wants to break up then it’s better to let go sooner than hanging on in the hopes that she’ll change her mind.
Also the maturity may not be there to say “I can’t be your support person right now” and setting that boundary and communicating when she is and isn’t too overwhelmed is maybe something she’s not capable of right now. Try not to stay in the mindset of wondering, that’s a downward spiral waiting to happen.
In any case, “I might want to break up with you in the future” does not sound to me like a healthy thing to say to someone and expect them to just be ok and wait weeks for elaboration or clarification.
OP, as a parent I understand your hurt and frustration and feeling about what you might have done wrong. As a daughter though, I can say that it seems like you are aa fantastic dad and exactly what your daughter needed. You couldn't help her when she didn't want help, and honestly it is so difficult to prepare someone for something like this. You're doing so good!
Have you ever read that one Reddit post abt a girl who’s bf constantly told her she stank and she did all this extra stuff just for him to tell her it was a control thing he learned from his dad to keep his s.o. insecure and w him? Cause that’s what this sounds like.
Dump him, why be w someone long distance if it seems like they can’t stand you when you’re around? Might as well be w someone close who enjoys you.
Respect and love yourself to see that this person does not like you, much less love you. You deserve someone genuine who loves you and cherishes you.
Never stay with a cheater no matter what your family says. Cheaters cheat and he’ll do it again so don’t waste your therapy money. Trying to figure out what’s wrong with you that you don’t want to be with a cheater you’re just fine.
I know that telling them might seem like the scariest/worst part of this, but unfortunately it probably won’t be. If your parents are emotionally manipulative, then it can cause all sorts of problems.
My wife and I went through a similar situation with my mother. My mom is a very negative person and acted excited, but I knew it was going to be an ordeal, and it was and continues to be.
Honestly, a straightforward sit down conversations about expectations and is what I wish I would have done from the get-go.
I know it is a naked thing to accept, and it is an even harder thing to deal with, but you have to make it clear to your parents that:
1) this is a good thing about which you are excited,
2) this is about you, your husband, and your new child. It is not about them.
3) they need to focus on being grandparents, not on being your parent. They’ve had their chance to make impressions on you and raise, but you are an adult and now it is your time to raise your children how you see fit. Their job is to be happy for you, support you in ways that you actually need them to (not with unasked for advice or fear mongering), and to dote on your little one when it comes. Their job is not to criticize or correct (unless you ask for that sort of advice).
4) it seems like your partner is aware that that your parents might cause issues, and it’s important that you guys have firm footing together. This was something that i struggled with and it took me a long time to realize that I needed to be on my wife and child’s team and not anybody else’s.
All that said, best of luck to you. Young children are a wonder, and your life will feel so full.
That sounds AWFUL. (No offense you were trying to help.)
But the very last thing I’d want in a breakup is to drag it out, involve other people, and talk about it endlessly even though it’s a foregone conclusion.
I’d want to make fair arrangements quickly, then rip then and aid and both move on quickly.
Therapy would be bad for the bf too, any dragging out of the situation is going to give him false hope. Show compassion and make it quick.
I went no contact with my mother. My sister tried to “reconcile” us by pressuring me. I went no contact with my sister. Neither of them have seen my children since they were babies. My mother died last month and it didn't change how I felt about my decision in the slightest.
Do not get involved if you want to be part of her life. Do not tell her you can see where he's coming from. His side is twisted and unfathomable. He disowned his child because she didn't want the career he had?! He disowned his child because she fell in love with a soldier from an allied country?! What do you find so understandable? Just the fact that he wants to see the baby? Tough. That was always the outcome of his actions. He did this. She owes him nothing but contempt.
Haha, thanks again for this tidbit. I'm trying to do my best and give it some time and try to honor my own boundaries too because I have given in too many times.
I said if the roles were reversed it would be different and she said if I found a team of women that didn't mind getting changed with me in there, she wouldn't care.
It’s not the pillow. He is super angry about something, but it’s not the pillow. That he said over and over that he paid for could be a clue, but you should talk to him. Ask him why he got so upset.
Or, you know, there’s always Reddit’s go to solution: therapy and/or break up.
I work in a primary school and after ten years, have NEVER had lice from the kids and I am a super tactile teacher. They can't jump, it takes head to head contact.
You only need to keep your hair up or keep it out of the way of the kids to avoid it. She's either fed up and this is linked to her shame/stress/embarrassment, or she genuinely doesn't care.
If she doesn't care, that's an issue because it's directly affecting you and that shows a lack of respect. If she's overwhelmed, you might need a firm talk with her and to set some boundaries with offers to help again.
Don't let this kill the romance without being abundantly clear with her that it isn't normal and won't be tolerated. Ask her to sleep on the sofa until they're gone if needs be.
Yea I mean I have power of attorney for my MIL so if we had to it'd be fairly easy to take legal action but would like to avoid that at all costs.
Quentin Tarantino?
The guy needs to live his own life.
Having these petty squabbles with those that support him means he hasn’t grown up yet.
Totally understand but it feels like a lack of respect. Like I respect her too much to do that. It feels like she it accounting for the other dudes feelings over mine. But hey that just me.
Like.. at very best he's clearly communicating to you that he doesn't care how you feel and refuses to try.
How is that a relationship worth fighting for? That's literally the bare minimum for a successful partnership and he won't do it.
Like.. at very best he's clearly communicating to you that he doesn't care how you feel and refuses to try.
How is that a relationship worth fighting for? That's literally the bare minimum for a successful partnership and he won't do it.
Ask him where they came from and why he's keeping them.
Yes, you're a fool to talk to him. Block him and move on. What's going through his head is “hey, she probably still has feelings for me, she'll be an easy rebound.”
Sometimes Reddit feels like a playground of squabbling children who have no idea what tipped the other person off and then then they go on this long rant about ‘my gf/bf is insecure’.
NO THATS NOT THE CASE. Read the post again.
She said something to OP that’s bothering her, OP told her to be quiet, and thats when she lost her and went ham. The crying and screaming at home is because she was dismissed by OP when she said that something bothered her, not because some girl put her head on his shoulder which may be an annoying thing but doesn’t warrant an explosion.
Some of you out here need some lesson in reading between the lines and realizing that there is another side to the story
Well, enough bite marks or chunks out of it I’m probably not going to use it. Or the hamster has good aim for the electronics part lol
I was thinking I was reading a repost. I'm glad this seems ro have ended on a much better note.
Wow, although my boyfriend and I haven’t really fought yet, I know I’m guilty of this sort of thing as many other people are. Thank you for typing this our so explicitly! This will serve as a really great guide for me moving forward if he approaches me with frustrations!
1) it is clearly not the behavior of two people who are each other as just friends.
2) no it is clear that you both have gone beyond the natural boundaries of “friendship”
3) yes. Emotional cheating exists – and welcome! You are emotionally cheating.
If you were to show this post to your wife – would she be fine with it? That answers any/all of your questions.
You leave.
Anyone who could cheat ‘just in case’ never cared about you in the first place.
I think this is unfair – I visit and I spend insane amounts of time with her children. I love her children, they are the most wonderful kids I’ve ever met and they are a testament to her. I would do absolutely anything for her or them. But how can I maintain an adult relationship with my best friend if we spend NO adult time together?
Don't react, that's what he wants. I'm petty enough not to give him the satisfaction. I would take my shit and leave, no contact
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You need an attorney now. Get ready before she has time to act. Based on the post, husband has a very strong case. Any judge is going to look askance at at woman who abandoned her child. A restraining order might be appropriate to eliminate the possibility of her showing up at home or school. Be strong. Be relentless. Best wishes.
He’s WAY too old to have a Snapchat first of all… SECONDLY that’s an emotional affair and you deserve better.
Not gonna lie, from the way the title of this post was written I was expecting the story to be that your ex girlfriend found porn featuring your new gf live and told you about it.
lose the dude.
exactly! if its me I probably already camping in my lawyer's office & the police station! Its sexual violation category.
You need to block this guy again and leave him blocked. He talked shit about you and your friends, he never deserved to be unblocked in the first place. You deserve better than him.
That’s really tough to have to deal with. It’s also not your fault. Give her an opportunity to clarify what she meant but if she really wants to break up then it’s better to let go sooner than hanging on in the hopes that she’ll change her mind.
Also the maturity may not be there to say “I can’t be your support person right now” and setting that boundary and communicating when she is and isn’t too overwhelmed is maybe something she’s not capable of right now. Try not to stay in the mindset of wondering, that’s a downward spiral waiting to happen.
In any case, “I might want to break up with you in the future” does not sound to me like a healthy thing to say to someone and expect them to just be ok and wait weeks for elaboration or clarification.
OP, as a parent I understand your hurt and frustration and feeling about what you might have done wrong. As a daughter though, I can say that it seems like you are aa fantastic dad and exactly what your daughter needed. You couldn't help her when she didn't want help, and honestly it is so difficult to prepare someone for something like this. You're doing so good!
Have you ever read that one Reddit post abt a girl who’s bf constantly told her she stank and she did all this extra stuff just for him to tell her it was a control thing he learned from his dad to keep his s.o. insecure and w him? Cause that’s what this sounds like.
Dump him, why be w someone long distance if it seems like they can’t stand you when you’re around? Might as well be w someone close who enjoys you.
Respect and love yourself to see that this person does not like you, much less love you. You deserve someone genuine who loves you and cherishes you.
Never stay with a cheater no matter what your family says. Cheaters cheat and he’ll do it again so don’t waste your therapy money. Trying to figure out what’s wrong with you that you don’t want to be with a cheater you’re just fine.
Get a lawyer. You have rights too
This story is an ongoing fantasy. I wish people could spot the ragebait creative writing posts!
I know that telling them might seem like the scariest/worst part of this, but unfortunately it probably won’t be. If your parents are emotionally manipulative, then it can cause all sorts of problems.
My wife and I went through a similar situation with my mother. My mom is a very negative person and acted excited, but I knew it was going to be an ordeal, and it was and continues to be.
Honestly, a straightforward sit down conversations about expectations and is what I wish I would have done from the get-go.
I know it is a naked thing to accept, and it is an even harder thing to deal with, but you have to make it clear to your parents that:
1) this is a good thing about which you are excited,
2) this is about you, your husband, and your new child. It is not about them.
3) they need to focus on being grandparents, not on being your parent. They’ve had their chance to make impressions on you and raise, but you are an adult and now it is your time to raise your children how you see fit. Their job is to be happy for you, support you in ways that you actually need them to (not with unasked for advice or fear mongering), and to dote on your little one when it comes. Their job is not to criticize or correct (unless you ask for that sort of advice).
4) it seems like your partner is aware that that your parents might cause issues, and it’s important that you guys have firm footing together. This was something that i struggled with and it took me a long time to realize that I needed to be on my wife and child’s team and not anybody else’s.
All that said, best of luck to you. Young children are a wonder, and your life will feel so full.
That sounds AWFUL. (No offense you were trying to help.)
But the very last thing I’d want in a breakup is to drag it out, involve other people, and talk about it endlessly even though it’s a foregone conclusion.
I’d want to make fair arrangements quickly, then rip then and aid and both move on quickly.
Therapy would be bad for the bf too, any dragging out of the situation is going to give him false hope. Show compassion and make it quick.