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I would have a plan for it though. Something tells me they are planning to show up. Do you have any friends that will be there that side with you? Maybe they could be the ones to ask them to leave or at least keep an eye out.
What you don’t want is for them to show up unannounced and like others are suggesting make some other huge announcement and then as host you have to pretend to care and be happy for them.
FWIW I think it was shocking you were not invited to their wedding. 50 does fill up fast with family but 200? No, unless you live in a culture where the norm is 2,000 guests. Even then, the person that introduced me to my husband that we were friends with enough to come to their Christmas party each year and announce our engagement at would be near the top of my 50 person wedding invite list and would be toasted to at the wedding for having a significant part in us meeting and leading me to find the love of my life.
Friendships shouldn’t be one sided. You have to make and effort and invest in your friends for them to invest in your. These people do not seem like they are actually your friends, so I see no reason to invite them. Prior to the wedding did you spend time with them outside of the Christmas party?
2 days is not long at all. I would get worried at a week. But it’s obvious she’s not as interested as he is. He is putting her on a pedestal and idolizing her which is not healthy.
Joking about a husband stitch isn't funny regardless of your 'sense of humour'. It's ruined countless womens lives, sex lives and given them lifelong pain and suffering. It's not funny It's disgusting to even mention as a joke.
All I can tell you is what you feel is normal. Don't be afraid, it will pass with time. You will recover and have joy again one day in your life. Just takes time.
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I'm 30, and I had my age range from 28-38 when I was on Tinder a few months back.
I have nothing against younger guys, but I'm personally more interested in matching guys who are closer to me in age and I'd likely have more in common with. Also I'd just feel weird matching anyone under 25 tbh.
Don't confuse her regret to be remorse. The woman divorced you to move her lover into your home. She put her selfishness ahead of her love, your marriage, and more importantly, your family and children. She literally bribed your kid to stay silent.
This woman is a POS. She had months to see the effects of what she's done. Yet she kept at it, despite seeing what it did to you and the kids. She's the embodiment of entitlement and narcissism. You and your kids deserve better. Go low contact and communicate through a parenting app. Outside of that, whatever goes on in her life is irrelevant to you.
It’s not fair to her if you know her desire to be married and you don’t see her as your future. You have to tell her. You can’t not just because it’s inconvenient for you at the time. Honestly, she’s sounds amazing but if you don’t have the same goals, you need to tell her immediately.
Stressing you out with his rants and blaming you is the wrong way to help you be able to conceive his child.He is being selfish and hurtful. Perhaps, you should let him go find someone else.
I don't want her to be weird about this or regret about sharing with me. She is okay about it and I dont want to ruin it for her. And its been a while I feel like this if I bring this up now she might think that I always felt this way and that might make it worse.
Your gf sounds like the type who never had sexual education or any form of talk with a adult person about sexuality. Clearly she never took care of anyone, as I can't think of anything more NOT sexual then to change someone's diaper….
I would quietly sit down and explain this to her, it's more likely it's an education problem, but if she doesn't understand, then get the hell out of that relationship…
Your gf sounds like the type who never had sexual education or any form of talk with a adult person about sexuality. Clearly she never took care of anyone, as I can't think of anything more NOT sexual then to change someone's diaper….
I would quietly sit down and explain this to her, it's more likely it's an education problem, but if she doesn't understand, then get the hell out of that relationship…
Don’t not let your GF make you feel bad. You were being a friend a dam good one at that. If I were you I would question this relationship if that’s her moral stance.
You need to take this man off the pedestal. He sounds like a good man, but your sister did the work to get clean and she got clean because she wanted to. Maybe she was older and realized she had to get clean. It's incredibly patronizing to give all the credit to another person!
It's also incredibly risky to do so because it sounds like you think she cannot stay clean without him or she would not have been clean if she had not met him. You are giving her zero credit.
You need to talk to her and see if she has a therapist, if not, help her find one. Does she have a sponsor or goes to meetings? Addicts are always addicts and destructive behavior is rather common, so she still needs help. It doesn't go away and it's constant work.
I wish I could give you an award! So true! This has got to be one of the most stupid posts on here I have ever seen. If OP was my kid or sibling… I would be helping his ex-wife get 100% custody of their child. There is no way I would want my niece/nephew/grandkid in a house with OP and his current wife and exposed to this nonsense. Some people really need to read what they write… OUT LOUD so they can hear how stupid they sound.
OP, open your eyes. Your daughter deserves better than this nonsense. You, on the other hand, may find yourself liking the 3 hots and a cot provided for you courtesy of the county lockup next time your wife decides to spit on you and set you up for an extended stay with the county.
But .. it seems like her husband took advantage of her incapacitated sister, it's really important that she was spends time to ascertain whether this was consensual or a sexual assault.
Making dinner isn’t that naked any way, “it only takes 30 seconds to take chicken out of the freezer”.
It wouldn't be productive, but damn if I wouldn't be tempted to serve him a plate of thawed, uncooked chicken for his next “meal” after that comment. “You're right, it wasn't that nude! It only took 30 seconds!”
Ya I had a quick browse at your post history and I'm just confused as to what the question is. This guy doesn't even seem into you, everything he does is not on board with someone who wants to be in a relationship. Not sure why you are putting up with this but find someone who makes you their priority! This dude sure isn't.
Who’s from relationship to relationship never recover they’re never healed. And they’re not very healthy. I would stop and at least give the respect of waiting until the person is moved out or keep them away from the house you on the other hand. Let me just say, your partner has been granted a big favor by being removed from the relationship.
First hit you don’t need his permission to break up. I would block him on anything return any keys and tell him if he doesn’t stay away from you you’ll get a restraining order.
She might be more open to the idea if next time you suggest a threesome with another guy rather than another girl. I assume that’d be fine with you, right? You’re 100% hetero and all, and so is she. This is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, so do what you gotta do to make it happen.
This sounds so weird. Is this person your girlfriend? Why are you referring to her as date. She has a spare key. It seems like you’re downplaying your relationship. If this person is your friend for so many years why don’t you know their birthday. Why would they need to lie to you to get you out of the house. It’s all very strange and I wouldnt stick around either. Why couldn’t you wait to deliver this gift yourself. It doesn’t add up.
In this instance, with OP having a gay brother, and her husband never taking the slightest issue with it, I kinda get why the topic didn't really come up. Watching someone actively not be a bigot, would kinda dispell to concern of bigotry to most people.
Like…I never ask my partner if he's secretly racist, cause he's never given me a single reason to believe he is, but also has given me many reasons to believe he's not.
Clearly your values on sexuality do not align. You should respect her honesty. It sounds like she is offering a casual relationship with you (in the short term anyway). It would bother me tbh.
Dude your kid with your wife is going to be calling another man “dad”. Even on Reddit it’s rare to witness this level of cruelty. Your wife is right to be upset and she should be questioning what staying in this marriage will cost her first son.
i’m sorry, but there is a level of accountability you actually have to take besides just saying that you feel guilty.
he is not forcing you to give into what he wants, he is not abusing you for it- you are recognizing that it makes him more attracted to you and puts more of his focus onto you so you are complying, but the reality is his focus isn’t even on you in those moments either- it’s on your friends and the idea of a hypothetical threesome where he is being worshipped. YOU deserve to be wanted, prioritized, and treated like a human being rather than a glorified AI sex robot whose primary purpose is to please him. you deserve to have sex with somebody who actually wants to be having sex with you..
you are a fully developed adult who is capable of making your own choices, having morals and using your OWN judgement apart from just submitting to whatever he asks of you. if you actually felt so horrible about violating your own friends, it would not be a regular part of your routine to use pictures of them and describe things they’d absolutely never do to him in the first place. ? it’s honestly disgusting, and if you do actually care about their autonomy, you would put a naked stop at that regardless of anything else. if you want to continue blowing someone who is more interested in their phone, that is ultimately your decision, and it only hurts you in the long run- but you are involving people who have no say and who you can already infer would not consent to it, and that hurts way more people than just yourself. don’t sacrifice the kind of person you are at your core for a man who truly has no consideration for you in the first place.
She's been on it for 2 fuckin months!! It's def effective! As a woman, if i hump a dude and don't say a WORD about where i want him to nut, why would i be surprised he nutted in me?? Ya, he should've checked before he did it but her reaction is insanely overblown. Shaking and having a meltdown?? She doesn't need to be having sex at alllll if this is her reaction.
I don't think there's any amount of attractiveness that can make up for both a lack of aftercare and half-assed sex because “the movie was at the good part.” This guy sounds incredibly selfish, and then the fact that he treated you so dismissively for telling him how his actions made you feel?? It's not you, it's him, he's a selfish jerk. It's not worth it to continue sleeping with someone who makes you feel bad and unimportant. He's basically treating you like a human fleshlight; he isn't interested in meeting your sexual needs.
If the apology is followed up by a request for sex, I think you'll know that he isn't actually sorry about hurting you, he only wants access so he can get his rocks off again. It's fine to be in a situationship if you're both happy, but he's treating you poorly and actively making you feel unattractive and undesirable. I think you will be better served by finding a new sexual partner who actually enjoys pleasuring you.
No, re read it, she had two “cheating” events, with known friends of hers, two times with one and once with the other one. That was during kinda break-ups so not knowing the exact scenario (I never asked so much into detail) might be cheating or not. But the counting I made is right
This isn’t really a thing in todays times. If something is wrong, max effort is going to be made to save both parties. However, unless your boyfriend has power of attorney or some legal document that gives him the ability to choose your medical care, this is a dumbass question that has no relevance to your life. If he does have a legal right to make decisions for you, then you need to make your wishes clear.
I understand this thought process of being worried about possible complications in a future pregnancy. It’s scary, but it seems like you’re asking this question to gauge how much he cares for you, not because you’re actually planning on starting a family and want to discuss what to do if a complicated situation occurs.
It’s not a fair question. It’s very immature and definitely an indicator that you don’t need to have a baby any time soon.
Respectfully, OUR savings. Also nowhere in the post says that I didn’t want it. I have No desire to engage in a back and forth, and I 100% respect your opinion, but pls let’s keep the facts straight .
Break up. You are a victim here, I mean this gently but please understand this, don't have sex with men older than like 21 at your age. You were groomed.
You both messed up. You slept with someone and so did she. So why you feel hurt? You shouldn't have told her you slept with someone…people just love to over share and then wonder what happened???
Oh I know. Good god do I know. Now anyway. Every night she is coming back. Like fuck I AM a moron. She's on my couch passed out right now. Came up with her friend and needed a torch for her friends dab rig. I let them in. Now she's passed out on my couch. Ya know, after telling me she really likes me etc etc. Her friend and I just shrugged our shoulders and said bye.
All I want is to find someone sane and loyal but lately this seems to be the women that come into my life. Except this one basically moved in and made me love her. Kill me
Your bf tagging you as Mac Mommy isn't “really weird? I have no idea how you can confront a person who is as obsessed as your bf is. Is this addiction a placeholder for trauma from his childhood? Does he have any other interests? Is he on the spectrum? He sounds like he is really difficult to live with. If you can online with it, that's great and all power to you. If this is getting to you, you may just have to end the relationship. You can try talking to him, but he really sounds like he is a “Macaholic” and you may not get through to him. Best to you.
My only issue with this is why would she feel the need to text the husband and tell him she will no longer be at the bus stop? If she was trying to avoid him she would have blocked his number, changed her schedule, and not have ever told him.
Honestly? He has been fully transparent and upfront with you about who he is and the actions that he is going to take. And you still chose to have children with him.
If you’re not comfortable with him sleeping with other women it’s time to leave the marriage. You’re not going to stop him.
Reading all your comments, it doesn't sound too damaging. I too am a women who occasionally grabs a pint by herself after work. Just be mindful that it doesn't become a crutch, something you have to do every night. But occasionally, thats fine.
The bigger issue seems to be that you both are incapable of having a night out without going insanely overboard. Like buying multiple rounds in Dublin, which is already incredibly expensive, in the cost of living crisis?? Dude. And that he seems not trust you in a bar by yourself.
Your plan is a good one. If he objects, ask him if he wants to open your relationship. If he says no, ask if he wants for each of you to have a hall pass, and she can be his. Be casual and be supportive. He will lie otherwise, but if he thinks you are on board, he might say yes. If it's a yes, DUMP HIS ASS, otherwise… DUMP HIS ASS!
Completely agree with everything. Nah he met her once she turned 18 I read like 2/3 years worth of convos I know for a fact they didn’t know each other before she turned 18
Talk with her and just ask why she’s reposting these videos. Once she’s explained then let her know how it looks to you. Go from there.
Hopefully she’ll be open and explain her thinking, because even if she’s jumping on a bandwagon, these are obviously media aimed at lost love. Keep it civil but don’t allow her to dismiss or deflect from the main point of ‘why’ and what that means. Good luck.
I reached out and he essentially just said he was in a bad mood. I let him know I was here when or if he needed anything. Not going to reach out again.
He's opened up about some of the things he is struggling with.
If what you typed here is really what he said, that he'd “move out” then you don't really have a problem. Just break up with him and ask him to move out. Once that's done it's not your problem whether he ends up with his mother or somewhere else. You're not responsible for the care and feeding/room and board of this adult person.
I would have a plan for it though. Something tells me they are planning to show up. Do you have any friends that will be there that side with you? Maybe they could be the ones to ask them to leave or at least keep an eye out.
What you don’t want is for them to show up unannounced and like others are suggesting make some other huge announcement and then as host you have to pretend to care and be happy for them.
FWIW I think it was shocking you were not invited to their wedding. 50 does fill up fast with family but 200? No, unless you live in a culture where the norm is 2,000 guests. Even then, the person that introduced me to my husband that we were friends with enough to come to their Christmas party each year and announce our engagement at would be near the top of my 50 person wedding invite list and would be toasted to at the wedding for having a significant part in us meeting and leading me to find the love of my life.
Friendships shouldn’t be one sided. You have to make and effort and invest in your friends for them to invest in your. These people do not seem like they are actually your friends, so I see no reason to invite them. Prior to the wedding did you spend time with them outside of the Christmas party?
2 days is not long at all. I would get worried at a week. But it’s obvious she’s not as interested as he is. He is putting her on a pedestal and idolizing her which is not healthy.
Joking about a husband stitch isn't funny regardless of your 'sense of humour'. It's ruined countless womens lives, sex lives and given them lifelong pain and suffering. It's not funny It's disgusting to even mention as a joke.
Pretty much I've been staying at her house almost every night
He is not oblivious. He is a bad person and lacks empathy. He sees you as a sex doll.
All I can tell you is what you feel is normal. Don't be afraid, it will pass with time. You will recover and have joy again one day in your life. Just takes time.
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Maybe reframing it not as “he’s making me wait 8 years for a ring” and “he wants to be in a stable position to take a serious step” will help.
There’s also a chance he could be in a position to talk marriage sooner, but he’s trying to be conservative and set a realistic timeline.
I'm 30, and I had my age range from 28-38 when I was on Tinder a few months back.
I have nothing against younger guys, but I'm personally more interested in matching guys who are closer to me in age and I'd likely have more in common with. Also I'd just feel weird matching anyone under 25 tbh.
Yeah I was just thinking that too! Gonna block now
Thank you!
Don't confuse her regret to be remorse. The woman divorced you to move her lover into your home. She put her selfishness ahead of her love, your marriage, and more importantly, your family and children. She literally bribed your kid to stay silent.
This woman is a POS. She had months to see the effects of what she's done. Yet she kept at it, despite seeing what it did to you and the kids. She's the embodiment of entitlement and narcissism. You and your kids deserve better. Go low contact and communicate through a parenting app. Outside of that, whatever goes on in her life is irrelevant to you.
It’s not fair to her if you know her desire to be married and you don’t see her as your future. You have to tell her. You can’t not just because it’s inconvenient for you at the time. Honestly, she’s sounds amazing but if you don’t have the same goals, you need to tell her immediately.
I’m married.
So, he is not into you anymore.
Tell him Goodbye – the soonest.
Block him.
Stressing you out with his rants and blaming you is the wrong way to help you be able to conceive his child.He is being selfish and hurtful. Perhaps, you should let him go find someone else.
I don't want her to be weird about this or regret about sharing with me. She is okay about it and I dont want to ruin it for her. And its been a while I feel like this if I bring this up now she might think that I always felt this way and that might make it worse.
Exactly this. “I was throwing signs at her” okay?? Should've thrown some words at her, my friend.
At the end of the day, you hurt yourself by not talking about how you felt and she assumed it would be like the last couple of times.
Are you upset with her or with yourself for not speaking up sooner? Also…how are 2 ons before you got exclusive going to impact your relationship? Idk
I would think a healthy relationship with an ex who you co-parent with is a green flag.
Your gf sounds like the type who never had sexual education or any form of talk with a adult person about sexuality. Clearly she never took care of anyone, as I can't think of anything more NOT sexual then to change someone's diaper….
I would quietly sit down and explain this to her, it's more likely it's an education problem, but if she doesn't understand, then get the hell out of that relationship…
Your gf sounds like the type who never had sexual education or any form of talk with a adult person about sexuality. Clearly she never took care of anyone, as I can't think of anything more NOT sexual then to change someone's diaper….
I would quietly sit down and explain this to her, it's more likely it's an education problem, but if she doesn't understand, then get the hell out of that relationship…
Don’t not let your GF make you feel bad. You were being a friend a dam good one at that. If I were you I would question this relationship if that’s her moral stance.
You need to take this man off the pedestal. He sounds like a good man, but your sister did the work to get clean and she got clean because she wanted to. Maybe she was older and realized she had to get clean. It's incredibly patronizing to give all the credit to another person!
It's also incredibly risky to do so because it sounds like you think she cannot stay clean without him or she would not have been clean if she had not met him. You are giving her zero credit.
You need to talk to her and see if she has a therapist, if not, help her find one. Does she have a sponsor or goes to meetings? Addicts are always addicts and destructive behavior is rather common, so she still needs help. It doesn't go away and it's constant work.
I’m sorry but she already is one
I wish I could give you an award! So true! This has got to be one of the most stupid posts on here I have ever seen. If OP was my kid or sibling… I would be helping his ex-wife get 100% custody of their child. There is no way I would want my niece/nephew/grandkid in a house with OP and his current wife and exposed to this nonsense. Some people really need to read what they write… OUT LOUD so they can hear how stupid they sound.
OP, open your eyes. Your daughter deserves better than this nonsense. You, on the other hand, may find yourself liking the 3 hots and a cot provided for you courtesy of the county lockup next time your wife decides to spit on you and set you up for an extended stay with the county.
But .. it seems like her husband took advantage of her incapacitated sister, it's really important that she was spends time to ascertain whether this was consensual or a sexual assault.
Making dinner isn’t that naked any way, “it only takes 30 seconds to take chicken out of the freezer”.
It wouldn't be productive, but damn if I wouldn't be tempted to serve him a plate of thawed, uncooked chicken for his next “meal” after that comment. “You're right, it wasn't that nude! It only took 30 seconds!”
Ya I had a quick browse at your post history and I'm just confused as to what the question is. This guy doesn't even seem into you, everything he does is not on board with someone who wants to be in a relationship. Not sure why you are putting up with this but find someone who makes you their priority! This dude sure isn't.
Dump his ass and give him permission to F other women, just not you anymore!! Tell him he can’t have his cake and eat it!!
I worry that this is some sort of weird Stockholm syndrome pseudo-kink situation
Don’t do anything at all. She doesn’t get to make that decision for you. Her opinion means nothing. Smile, nod, and have as many babies as you want.
Who’s from relationship to relationship never recover they’re never healed. And they’re not very healthy. I would stop and at least give the respect of waiting until the person is moved out or keep them away from the house you on the other hand. Let me just say, your partner has been granted a big favor by being removed from the relationship.
Did not. She got a GED. Most places it’s 21 to finish highschool
My (44M) boyfriend won't let me (29F) break up with him.
The mistake you're making is thinking he has a say in it. You are not letting you break up with him, it's not up to him.
First hit you don’t need his permission to break up. I would block him on anything return any keys and tell him if he doesn’t stay away from you you’ll get a restraining order.
you can get trust back, but it has to be earned!
She might be more open to the idea if next time you suggest a threesome with another guy rather than another girl. I assume that’d be fine with you, right? You’re 100% hetero and all, and so is she. This is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, so do what you gotta do to make it happen.
I would love to hear what he thinks I did to deserve being raped at 2.
If this continues your mom might be the one without a future. This is a rough spot.
so because some women want it, all women want it?
o k
And? He was her daughter for 15 years before that.
Definitely not the side chick.. Only recently LDR. But I stayed at his and met his mum many times.
This sounds so weird. Is this person your girlfriend? Why are you referring to her as date. She has a spare key. It seems like you’re downplaying your relationship. If this person is your friend for so many years why don’t you know their birthday. Why would they need to lie to you to get you out of the house. It’s all very strange and I wouldnt stick around either. Why couldn’t you wait to deliver this gift yourself. It doesn’t add up.
In this instance, with OP having a gay brother, and her husband never taking the slightest issue with it, I kinda get why the topic didn't really come up. Watching someone actively not be a bigot, would kinda dispell to concern of bigotry to most people.
Like…I never ask my partner if he's secretly racist, cause he's never given me a single reason to believe he is, but also has given me many reasons to believe he's not.
I can’t imagine a tutor wanting to travel that much.
Clearly your values on sexuality do not align. You should respect her honesty. It sounds like she is offering a casual relationship with you (in the short term anyway). It would bother me tbh.
Oh, another thread that somehow involves “muh mental illness” on Reddit. Big surprise. /s
I think she deleted it from the laptop, but you can sometimes recover files.
Moving things to cloud can alter the time stamp.
Dude your kid with your wife is going to be calling another man “dad”. Even on Reddit it’s rare to witness this level of cruelty. Your wife is right to be upset and she should be questioning what staying in this marriage will cost her first son.
i’m sorry, but there is a level of accountability you actually have to take besides just saying that you feel guilty.
he is not forcing you to give into what he wants, he is not abusing you for it- you are recognizing that it makes him more attracted to you and puts more of his focus onto you so you are complying, but the reality is his focus isn’t even on you in those moments either- it’s on your friends and the idea of a hypothetical threesome where he is being worshipped. YOU deserve to be wanted, prioritized, and treated like a human being rather than a glorified AI sex robot whose primary purpose is to please him. you deserve to have sex with somebody who actually wants to be having sex with you..
you are a fully developed adult who is capable of making your own choices, having morals and using your OWN judgement apart from just submitting to whatever he asks of you. if you actually felt so horrible about violating your own friends, it would not be a regular part of your routine to use pictures of them and describe things they’d absolutely never do to him in the first place. ? it’s honestly disgusting, and if you do actually care about their autonomy, you would put a naked stop at that regardless of anything else. if you want to continue blowing someone who is more interested in their phone, that is ultimately your decision, and it only hurts you in the long run- but you are involving people who have no say and who you can already infer would not consent to it, and that hurts way more people than just yourself. don’t sacrifice the kind of person you are at your core for a man who truly has no consideration for you in the first place.
She's been on it for 2 fuckin months!! It's def effective! As a woman, if i hump a dude and don't say a WORD about where i want him to nut, why would i be surprised he nutted in me?? Ya, he should've checked before he did it but her reaction is insanely overblown. Shaking and having a meltdown?? She doesn't need to be having sex at alllll if this is her reaction.
I don't think there's any amount of attractiveness that can make up for both a lack of aftercare and half-assed sex because “the movie was at the good part.” This guy sounds incredibly selfish, and then the fact that he treated you so dismissively for telling him how his actions made you feel?? It's not you, it's him, he's a selfish jerk. It's not worth it to continue sleeping with someone who makes you feel bad and unimportant. He's basically treating you like a human fleshlight; he isn't interested in meeting your sexual needs.
If the apology is followed up by a request for sex, I think you'll know that he isn't actually sorry about hurting you, he only wants access so he can get his rocks off again. It's fine to be in a situationship if you're both happy, but he's treating you poorly and actively making you feel unattractive and undesirable. I think you will be better served by finding a new sexual partner who actually enjoys pleasuring you.
No, re read it, she had two “cheating” events, with known friends of hers, two times with one and once with the other one. That was during kinda break-ups so not knowing the exact scenario (I never asked so much into detail) might be cheating or not. But the counting I made is right
You might truly love her but she's done with you. So move on. She's allowed to decide she doesn't want to be with you any more.
i threw up in my mouth a little after reading that title, it’s called negging. look it up.
We’re in America, social housing in our area would take many years to get and approval alone is nearly impossible.
This isn’t really a thing in todays times. If something is wrong, max effort is going to be made to save both parties. However, unless your boyfriend has power of attorney or some legal document that gives him the ability to choose your medical care, this is a dumbass question that has no relevance to your life. If he does have a legal right to make decisions for you, then you need to make your wishes clear.
I understand this thought process of being worried about possible complications in a future pregnancy. It’s scary, but it seems like you’re asking this question to gauge how much he cares for you, not because you’re actually planning on starting a family and want to discuss what to do if a complicated situation occurs.
It’s not a fair question. It’s very immature and definitely an indicator that you don’t need to have a baby any time soon.
Respectfully, OUR savings. Also nowhere in the post says that I didn’t want it. I have No desire to engage in a back and forth, and I 100% respect your opinion, but pls let’s keep the facts straight .
Break up. You are a victim here, I mean this gently but please understand this, don't have sex with men older than like 21 at your age. You were groomed.
i already did
So many red flags I lost count! GET OUT NOW!!
You both messed up. You slept with someone and so did she. So why you feel hurt? You shouldn't have told her you slept with someone…people just love to over share and then wonder what happened???
Oh I know. Good god do I know. Now anyway. Every night she is coming back. Like fuck I AM a moron. She's on my couch passed out right now. Came up with her friend and needed a torch for her friends dab rig. I let them in. Now she's passed out on my couch. Ya know, after telling me she really likes me etc etc. Her friend and I just shrugged our shoulders and said bye.
All I want is to find someone sane and loyal but lately this seems to be the women that come into my life. Except this one basically moved in and made me love her. Kill me
Your bf tagging you as Mac Mommy isn't “really weird? I have no idea how you can confront a person who is as obsessed as your bf is. Is this addiction a placeholder for trauma from his childhood? Does he have any other interests? Is he on the spectrum? He sounds like he is really difficult to live with. If you can online with it, that's great and all power to you. If this is getting to you, you may just have to end the relationship. You can try talking to him, but he really sounds like he is a “Macaholic” and you may not get through to him. Best to you.
most ghost would have stopped talking to you if you dont want to meet after 3 weeks.
But you don't know if she's aware of what the uncle has done in the past. Which is why communicating is the 1st step.
If she is aware then there's a bigger problem.
Oh my god! I hope the court drags you and you never see those precious babies again. You absolutely do not deserve it.
My only issue with this is why would she feel the need to text the husband and tell him she will no longer be at the bus stop? If she was trying to avoid him she would have blocked his number, changed her schedule, and not have ever told him.
Honestly? He has been fully transparent and upfront with you about who he is and the actions that he is going to take. And you still chose to have children with him.
If you’re not comfortable with him sleeping with other women it’s time to leave the marriage. You’re not going to stop him.
Reading all your comments, it doesn't sound too damaging. I too am a women who occasionally grabs a pint by herself after work. Just be mindful that it doesn't become a crutch, something you have to do every night. But occasionally, thats fine.
The bigger issue seems to be that you both are incapable of having a night out without going insanely overboard. Like buying multiple rounds in Dublin, which is already incredibly expensive, in the cost of living crisis?? Dude. And that he seems not trust you in a bar by yourself.
Your plan is a good one. If he objects, ask him if he wants to open your relationship. If he says no, ask if he wants for each of you to have a hall pass, and she can be his. Be casual and be supportive. He will lie otherwise, but if he thinks you are on board, he might say yes. If it's a yes, DUMP HIS ASS, otherwise… DUMP HIS ASS!
It’s unfortunately not funny.
She's laughing at you, not the situation. And you are very, very funny.
Completely agree with everything. Nah he met her once she turned 18 I read like 2/3 years worth of convos I know for a fact they didn’t know each other before she turned 18
You need to do nothing. She is doing the right thing by ignoring him. Don't make this a bigger problem than it is.
Talk with her and just ask why she’s reposting these videos. Once she’s explained then let her know how it looks to you. Go from there.
Hopefully she’ll be open and explain her thinking, because even if she’s jumping on a bandwagon, these are obviously media aimed at lost love. Keep it civil but don’t allow her to dismiss or deflect from the main point of ‘why’ and what that means. Good luck.
I reached out and he essentially just said he was in a bad mood. I let him know I was here when or if he needed anything. Not going to reach out again.
He's opened up about some of the things he is struggling with.
If what you typed here is really what he said, that he'd “move out” then you don't really have a problem. Just break up with him and ask him to move out. Once that's done it's not your problem whether he ends up with his mother or somewhere else. You're not responsible for the care and feeding/room and board of this adult person.
Your partner did not want to have sex with you, she put up with it.