Encourage him to talk to a therapist about his insecurities and explain how it is affecting your relationship. Consider couples therapy. If you're unhappy with the status quo then make moves to change it.
She has break to cinsider leaving you for him. She might have sex with him during your break.
Sure take this break, but clsrify you are still normally in relationship until one of you decide to break up, you will just spend some time alone to think.
You should take time to think as well. Do you want to be with someone that is unsure if she wasn't better off with someone else. This isn't material to build commited relationship on.
If you still want to stay with her do it only, if she doesn't cheat on you during your break (clarify you remain in relationship for now, to her), and agrees to cut him off, and agrees their relation was inappropriate.
For me it's a little hot to say, honestly you haven't even met yet just meet him first and have a wonderful time, the both of you. During he may bring it up or at another time. Heck you may even get the vibe that right then would be the time to bring it up or maybe not. Focus on that upcoming meeting and just let it all fall into place. Best of luck!
You're being an idiot.
Still hypocritical.
They are family now like it or not…
Also OP mentioned daughter wears just bra also so… yeah… nothing weird about that at all ?
Encourage him to talk to a therapist about his insecurities and explain how it is affecting your relationship. Consider couples therapy. If you're unhappy with the status quo then make moves to change it.
She has break to cinsider leaving you for him. She might have sex with him during your break.
Sure take this break, but clsrify you are still normally in relationship until one of you decide to break up, you will just spend some time alone to think.
You should take time to think as well. Do you want to be with someone that is unsure if she wasn't better off with someone else. This isn't material to build commited relationship on.
If you still want to stay with her do it only, if she doesn't cheat on you during your break (clarify you remain in relationship for now, to her), and agrees to cut him off, and agrees their relation was inappropriate.
For me it's a little hot to say, honestly you haven't even met yet just meet him first and have a wonderful time, the both of you. During he may bring it up or at another time. Heck you may even get the vibe that right then would be the time to bring it up or maybe not. Focus on that upcoming meeting and just let it all fall into place. Best of luck!